You never know where you might find a friend or not…

Haven’t seen an ex-boyfriend in years, and till this day I still have no intentions of seeing him. Recently my air conditioner broke and I’ve been shopping around for an estimate. Somehow, by a mutual friend, the ex-boyfriend found out about my air conditioner and search for prices. When I came home from work my mother asked, “How much did the air conditioner cost?”

“What air conditioner?”

I started walking towards the back yard and there it was. My ex had delivered a new air conditioner unit.

My best friend keeps in touch with her old boyfriends. I never understood why. I’ve never been the type to stay friends with ex-boyfriends. I am definitely a strong believer that if a relationship doesn’t work out while you’re in it, then what’s the point of keeping in touch after it’s over with. It’s like a bad marriage, after it’s over with, unless you have kids together, what’s the purpose of keeping in touch? and really “who cares?”

With the act of kindness that I was just shown, I guess that some relationships might be good to keep. But I have to confess, that after a couple of bad bruises on the ego, his lame excuses that really sucked, and some nights spent eating chocolate mint ice cream, an EX should be crossed out on the list of people worth remembering. I wonder if ex-boyfriends respect the title that they now have.

AND…If and when he calls, sincerely thank him. If he continues to call, turn off your cell phone and start going back into the chocolate mint ice cream you still keep in your refrigerator. After all, you won’t find out later that the chocolate mint ice cream you were having cheated on you.