How Much Time Is Too Much Time?

I was at dinner the other day with my girlfriend when she was complaining about not spending enough time with the new man in her life.  Usually women want to spend more time with their significant other.  Though for couples today it’s hard to juggle work life, family life and/or other commitments, every couple is different and we all have different needs.

If you think you are not spending enough time with your significant other, that is a sign that you are not happy or that something is wrong.  You should talk to him and come to some kind of understanding or agreement.  Spend as much time together as you both think it’s necessary.

If a woman wants to spend more time with a man it’s because she is interested.   After all, if two people are dating, shouldn’t it come naturally?

Do You Know What You Want?

Okay, so you’re over 40, independent, single and a workaholic.  What time do you have to go out and meet someone?  The only time you mostly have available is usually the weekend which is the time you use to pamper yourself, go shopping, spend some time with your girlfriends or watch a chick flick movie.

So before you know it, the weekend passed you by, it’s Monday morning and you’re back to work.  You’re sitting in the office, looking out the window and your mind wonders about meeting someone.   Someone besides your girlfriend to share your thoughts, ideas, opinions;  someone to laugh with and someone that will romance you.

Am I a dreamer?  If I am, then I would say a good percentage of women out there are searching for the same thing.    Is looking for someone kind so hard to find?   What wouldn’t a woman do for a great smile or someone to make her laugh, someone that she can feel comfortable with.  Have we become so shallow that all we see is the surface?

Take Me Home!

Okay, picture the scene…you’re in the car with your boyfriend, and both of you have just had a disagreement.  All of a sudden you say , “take me home!”  He looks at you and says “fine.”

He presses his foot on the petal, speeding to drop you off.

My question to you is why are you mad?  You just said, “take me home!”  The man has actually listened to what you just asked him to do.

Maybe next time you’ll think about it before you actually ask him to take you home.  And of course, out of all the times he’s never listened before, he listens now.

Men must truly be from Mars and Women from Venus.