Anna Damon

Romance novel reader, writer, and now blogger.

Archive for the month “September, 2012”

What a sucker! Robert Pattinson moves back with Kristen Stewart | Enrique Santos The King of Spanglish Media – News & Entertainment

What a sucker! Robert Pattinson moves back with Kristen Stewart | The official site of radio & TV personality Enrique Santos The King of Spanglish Media – News & Entertainment.

-I totally agree with this article, what a sucker.  I think she couldn’t take the pressure of the press with what she did and that’s why she was desperate to go back to him.

But then, when the storm is over with, she will cheat again and he will have to suffer the consequences.

Not only was the cheating bad because she did it with a married man, but the pictures that the press took of her with the other man were “Precious” to say the least.

I wonder if her V is made of gold?

Looking for Charming and found Fred Flintstone

I didn’t get a chance to write last week.  However,  I did get a chance to talk to a friend who cyberdates, which I found interesting.  To her there’s not much of a difference meeting a man online than meeting him at a bar.  She said, “if an individual is going to lie about their status, they will do so either over the internet or in front of you.”  This I do agree with, however, I do think there is more of a chance of someone lying to you online than in front of you. Online you can write and say all the words that come to mind as easily as writing them on a piece of paper.  I wonder how safe it is to find someone online…

Imagine talking to someone who has a picture of herself online and is a stunning Pamela Anderson look-a-like. You then set up a date to meet at a bar; you’re looking around the bar for the person you saw on the web and when you finally meet….she looks completely different.

What will some guys do?

I worked a long time ago with this guy that went out to meet a girl at a bar. He said that she was nothing like the picture she had on the web.  He introduced himself, shook her hand and walked out.

I was like…Wow! How harsh is that?  He later told me that if she was bold enough to lie about the way she looked, she could easily lie about anything else. And of course, it goes the other way around also.  Apparently there was no attraction there.

Image from famous-cartoon.blogspot.com

Now, for some of the ladies out there, you go out expecting to meet “Charming” and you end up meeting …Fred Flintstone.

What happened to first impressions?  You meet someone for the first time, you feel an attraction, suddenly your brain starts wondering in different directions.   The eyes make contact, you smile, he smiles.  I personally love a man with a great smile.  Has simple dating just gone out the window?

I love this quote by Franz Kafka: “May I kiss you then? On this miserable paper? I might as well open the window and kiss the night air.”

To a friend who just doesn’t seem to get it…Move On

It’s your wedding day, you’re looking deep into your loved-one’s eyes and somehow you know that this is it.  This is the day you’ve been waiting for.

Suddenly you turn around and there they are… the in-laws.

Would you have ever thought that when you married someone you also married their family?   Till this day, I don’t understand why some of us are in denial over this; this should be a golden rule.

“You marry someone, you marry their family. You divorce someone, you divorce their family.”   

The only tide you should have with an ex and their family is if you had kids together.   If there were no kids then the divorce should be whole.

When the other person has moved on with their life, you also need to move on.  Moving on doesn’t involve continuously befriending the ex family. And what if you have a new person in your life? Have you thought about how they might feel?

To say it bluntly, if the divorce is final, there are no kids involved, he/she has someone new, what are you waiting for?

A Word on Romance Today

Looking at the world around me, I’ve noticed that romance is nowhere to be found.  People have forgotten about it and jump straight into lust and sex and call it “romance.” But how long can lust and sex last without romance?

Is He Interested in You?

If you search phrases on the web like “how to know if a man is interested in you,” or “how to get a guy to like you,” you will find many different websites and tips. They give so many examples such as eye contact, body language, and the importance of flashing a smile.   A man who is interested in you will definitely let you know, even on the first date.  He will actually say, “I’d like to see you again” and will call you.

Ladies, take it from experience, a man who feels attracted to you WILL CALL…

If he doesn’t give you the time of day….NEXT!

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