To my new friend, Opinionated Man

Loved your blog, just loved it.  Especially the one titled “Women are Crazy.”  It made me laugh, which is a good thing.  Though let me clarify a few things for you.  When a woman decides on a topic all by herself, without the opinion of a man, it’s mostly because men usually can’t make up their minds.  Or we know that we will hear those words “Whatever you want honey.”  Which to us means, “We don’t care, just do whatever you want.”

Secondly, when you say to a woman “Absolutely right honey…” now those words are the key to a great marriage.  Why argue? Why would you even consider arguing with your significant other?  I’m pretty sure if you ask any man that has been married over 20 years, he would agree with this.

Lastly, why would a woman even consider talking about a subject that we know nothing about?  I don’t want to be cruel, but really it’s like a bad relationship, “If not interested, NEXT.”

And yes, at the end of the day, women are crazy.  Crazy to meet that perfect guy, crazy to fall in love, crazy to marry him and we definitely want a man to go crazy over us.

p.s.

You are a great writer.

To Flirt or not to Flirt

I should start this year by making my own golden rule. Rule number #1, Flirting shouldn’t be allowed if the person who is flirting with you doesn’t do anything about it afterwards. Here I am talking to the guy, notice I said, “The Guy,” and the conversation seems to be going smoothly. This is not the first time I’ve had a conversation with this person. At least we’ve established the fact that we are both friends, and we enjoy each other’s company here and there. Spontaneously I invite him to the movies; it was a very casual invite…like the kind you would say to yourself, this is NOT a date, just two friends going out. Suddenly I get the “I have to go home and let out the dogs.” Wow, what just happened? I was just dumped for a couple of dogs! Talk about a man’s best friend.

This is the part where a woman or man looses complete confidence. Did I have some piece of food stuck between my teeth? Or did I laugh too much? Then you get the flashback, it’s time to lose those extra 10 pounds, talk about social media.

Well, as to what happened to Scarlett in Gone with the Wind, I was blown away and you just lost your chance.