It’s been a stressful couple of weeks. I haven’t met my deadline to write my next article, and from things that I’ve wanted to do. My girlfriend called and invited me to a bar. Why not, I haven’t been out in a long time.
We were sitting at the bar talking about our favorite subject, men and dating. It’s interesting the things you notice when you’re sitting at the bar. But what really caught my attention was a very handsome tall man with salt and pepper hair who walked in with a dark grey suite. He sat at the bar, loosens his tie and asked the bar tender for a drink. I noticed right away the wedding ring on his left finger, which is definitely the first thing a woman looks for when she sees an attractive man.
So going back to my subject, I wondered what a married man would be doing at a bar drinking by himself instead of going home to his wife. If I were married to that man, I’d want him to come home and spend time with me not at a bar. Then I thought…maybe he had an argument with his wife and he came here to blow off some steam, but then suddenly he started texting.
And he started texting with a smirk expression; this was definitely not the face of a man who just had an argument with his wife. Oh, there he goes again, he loosen his tie some more. Then suddenly he looked at me or my friend from across the bar and smiled. I’d like to think that he looked at me. I have to tell you that smile, hmm…that smile showed amusement.
I was bold enough to ask the waiter (trying to get a man’s opinion), what do you think of a married man who comes to a bar? The waiter responded, “Someone told me this a long time ago, I see nothing, I hear nothing and I know nothing”. And you know what? I finally got it, did you?
As for the ladies out there, a married man will never give you a serious commitment, and if he cheats on his wife, what make you think he won’t cheat on you. We as women deserve so much more. I personally want to be with someone that will go crazy over me, not crazy over someone else. For the woman that must have been on the other side of the text, good luck with that relationship.
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